What stands out vividly in my recollection of our conversation was a rule of the school's dining hall requiring students to retrieve and eat any scraps deemed edible by the staff from a slop bucket they scraped their plates into.
We were eating dinner later when she teasingly admonished me to clean my plate. Then she had to push her own plate away. The memory of the slop bucket had contributed to an eating disorder that plagued her for many years. I recall that she had been clean and sober for some time when we met. Weeks later, as I was preparing to file an article about our meeting, she called to let me know her younger sister had committed suicide.
Those thoughts returned this week as The Truth and Reconciliation Commission of Canada released its final report. It's filled with a lot of stories like the ones I heard two decades ago from that brave woman.
And so, it is with revulsion that I discovered this weekend that opponents of the sexual health components of Ontario's Health and Physical Education are using The Truth and Reconciliation Commission findings as a prop for their arguments.
Stephanie McEvoy, speaking at a sex ed protest staged -- curiously -- on Parliament Hill in Ottawa on June 5th:
Do you want residential schools for your children, your grandchildren. No! It is a slippery slope. It is a very slippery slope. Reclaim your parental rights now!And now, this. Speaking at Queen's Park today in Toronto, Catholic blogger and parents rights activist Lou Iacobelli.
We just had a royal commission report on the abuses of children in residential schools. And a generation or two from now, we're going to have another royal commission on the harm done by the Kathleen Wynne's Liberal Government.
Addendum: June 8th, 2015 -- Ottawa
It wouldn't be a proper culture war party without inviting TheRebel's Brian Lilley, who interviews Stephanie McEvoy following her address linked above. It went like this -- Ms McEvoy begins:
The state does not supersede parental rights. We're seeing this happen from coast to coast, so even though Ontario is getting the most traction right now, we really have to be on guard that this is happening right across Canada.
There are cases happening all across the provinces and territories where in any other context these would be deemed illegal..."Such as what?" asks Mr Lilley.
Special interest groups and individuals pushing an agenda under the guise of sex education. And do you really want your girl scout, your your brownie leader, your camp counsellor, your Sunday school teacher giving your child a pamphlet about bondage...Even Brian Lilley looks perplexed at this point -- and he comes from the former Sun News Network, which started the Ben-Levin-curriculum-document-as-tool-for-grooming-minors conspiracy theory. Mr Lilley rescues Ms McEvoy by raising what he sees as the age inappropriateness of some curriculum components. Back to Ms McEvoy:
Ahh, that is true and they think that we just need to really think about this so carefully because when you're bringing things down to children, to minors, think of the content, think what would -- exactly what I said -- in any other situation, this would it be criminal, exposing children to ideas. And this opens the gate -- wide open -- for this when this curriculum comes through its opening up a door, and I don't... we're not thinking carefully about this.Apparently.
Mr Lilley to the rescue again:
We've just had the residential schools apology this week in Ottawa. Back in the day, all the expert said that was the right thing to do, and we now know what was wrong. This is one of my concerns is that we're told -- concerned parents like you, like me -- we're told the experts say this is the right thing. I've got kids that are in the age group that will be learning some of this material I don't think that a it's appropriate...
Some members of faith groups, or those who identify as traditionally minded, have been casting themselves as the victims of the Ontario Liberal Government's education policies -- from the Equity and Inclusive Education Strategy, to The Accepting Schools Act, to the sex ed curriculum. Their traditional values and strongly held beliefs are being usurped, they say. Their role as "first educators" is being superseded, they say.
A serious discussion of the role of parents vs the government is worth having.
Hijacking what is probably Canada's worst human rights failure is beneath contempt.